I’m debating between 495cc or 500cc for my breast argumentation.
I’m into the skinny body big breast kind of look, but I also don’t want to be shaped like the letter P.
My doctor told me to go with 495cc because 500cc would literally hang out the sides of my shirt. My frame is quite petite but I’m debating on going a size down. I just don’t want to regret it when I get it done and wished i would have gone bigger.
I feel like when i get my boobs in September done I’m going to rebrand again. Even though my rebrand is Successful, so many trash men from old persona keep recognizing me trying to contact.
Lol men will continue to be trash
Hi How are you? I was wondering have ever heard or worked in Monaco before? I heard a lot women go there around grand prix or Cannes?
A lot of women go to both the Cannes Film Festival and the Monaco Grand Prix. It can literally be the biggest payday of the year for an escort, can set a sugarbaby up with a whale (or two) and for girls that just want to live the jetset life, it can give them a mile long list of contacts. As long as you go in with a solid game plan, I highly recommend going to both events if you’re into this type of lifestyle.
And although you didn’t ask, I have to talk more about this because I love the French Riviera so much. So in no particular order here are my suggestions, tips, opinions, etc:
The “route” works like this: Cannes for the Film Festival (it comes first, around the middle of May) then Monaco for the Grand Prix (it happens at the end of May) and then you can leave and go home but in my opinion while you’re in the area you may as well make a visit to St Tropez lol. If you really have your heart set on staying in Cannes or Monaco, book your accommodations as far in advance as you can. Both the Festival de Cannes and the Formula One are really good at posting next year’s dates super early (usually not to long after that year’s event has taken place) so be on the lookout and book early. Book your hotel first, then your airfare. Hotels can get ungodly expensive right before the events.
Now if you don’t care about staying in Cannes or Monaco (and honestly, you shouldn’t, especially if this is your first time) or if you’re on a budget, stay in either Nice or Antibes. Now, if it were me, I would stay in Antibes. Antibes is about a 10 minute train ride from Cannes and quite a few celebrities (and other affluent people) stay in Antibes instead of Cannes during the film festival. FYI: the hotel they usually stay at is Hotel du Cap at Eden Roc, and while it’s most likely booked solid by now if you’re really into celebrity spotting, you can always go for lunch or a spa treatment (just make a reservation). Hell you could probably go for breakfast, they start serving at 7:30 lmao. Wherever you choose to stay remember the hotel room should mainly be functioning as your storage/dressing room. Don’t spend too much time in the room or the hotel itself. Store your belongings. Change into your clothes. Sleep (but the “sleeping” part is up to you. Depending on who you meet and your game plan, you may not be sleeping in your hotel room at all lol).
If you’re staying outside of Cannes/Monaco do not take the bus. Let me repeat that, do not take the bus. Don’t do it to yourself, you’ll have a headache by the end of the day. It literally takes like 2 hours to get anywhere during this time of the year if you’re on the bus. Take the train, it only costs a few dollars more and if you’re in Antibes it will get you to Cannes in 10 mins, Nice to Cannes in about 25 mins. Now when it comes time to “work” in Monaco, you may want to stay in Nice because the transport time is shorter, about 15 mins I think. Antibes to Monaco can be anywhere from about 35 mins to 1 hour. Still not bad though.
Know whether or not you’re going to approach this as a sugar baby or as an escort because you will get propositioned. This is of course what you want if you’re an escort, but not so much if you’re a sugar baby. So know “your role” before you go. Not only will it make things a lot easier but it will keep you from looking naive.
Speaking of naive…know your rates/allowance in both euro and american dollars.
Speaking of rates… if you’re an escort, know what you’re going to charge for half a day, a full day, overnights, weekend, etc. Most men when they go to events like this do not want to be with someone for just an hour or two.
Look on point at all times. *takes a deep breath* LOOK ON POINT AT ALL TIMES!!! Sis, when you step out of that hotel room or from that train, you better be slaying. There will be competition. Girls from all over the world flock to the film festival and the grand prix because of the amount of wealth that surrounds these kinds of events - the amount of money and luxury you see is almost surreal at times.
It never hurts to have business cards (but only if you’re escorting and make sure they’re discreet).
If you don’t know anything at all about the film festival or the grand prix, read about it while you’re on the plane/train. It’s always a good idea to be informed. You don’t need to know everything but at least know some of the highlights of the festival and who won the grand prix last year.
I don’t know if this will be your first time attending either event/location but if it is, visit with reasonable expectations. There are some girls that visit these places and think that they’re going to end up on the arm of Leo while walking the red carpet by the next day….
Now, I will say that usually the ones that end up disappointed are the sugar babies/jet set girls because they put their focus on the wrong thing. Their focus should be on networking and making contacts so they can begin forming relationships with affluent men, potential whales and like minded ladies.
Escorts and their expectations are a bit different. I personally don’t know anyone who didn’t make back their money plus some when they went (unless they had some insane expectations - which has happened) but that’s because the escort’s goal is usually “I need/want to make X amount of dollars by the end of this week”. A sugar’s goal should be “I want to meet potential sponsors and begin relationships with them”.
Some girls get caught up in the glitz and fanfare and lose sight of the bigger picture.
And this post has already gotten so long and I’m not done. Stay tuned for part 2 lol.
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I will love myself for who I am
I will speak my mind & share my opinion
I will set my standards high and be true to myself
I will only surround myself with people that bring positivity towards my life
I will cut off anyone who holds me back or is negative towards my goals
I will not waste my time dating for fun
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if it is meant for me it will come to me, & if not, something better is on its way to me.
i am one with my power: my mind, my body, my soul, & my spirit are aligned.
i free myself of resistance & all which no longer serves me.
thank you universe, i am eternally grateful 🤍🪐
Officially getting a bbl coming next year. I just sent my deposit to my doctor and I’m locked in for next year. 💕
On another episode on why men are stupid.
This dumbass really contacted me just to tell me he can’t book me. Like sir what was the whole point of you even emailing me. I’m not going to wait for you 🙄
I guilt tripped him on buying me some new lingerie but I’m still upset with him wasting my time. I need to really set up a auto reply with these tricks.
This just happened 2 seconds ago🙄
Philadelphia and surrounding area ladies watch out for this trash bag
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- I am my top priority.
- I do not feel guilty when I reject offers that do not benefit me.
- I allow myself to live a life of luxury.
- I start every day from a place of gratitude because I recognize how blessed I am.
- I am selective with the friendships that I cultivate because I realize not everyone is supposed to have intimate access to me.
- I protect my time, because I know it’s nonrefundable.
- I protect my energy, because I know I cannot give what I don’t have.
- I allow others to do for me graciously.
- I allow myself experience beautiful things.
- I am working towards becoming my highest self every day.
- I am worthy of selfless love.
- I am worthy of good things.
- I am precious.
- I matter to the world.
- I am a lady of luxury.
I’m going to be so rich one day, that I look at the price of buildings like I look at the price of gum.
I don’t wanna go to this 2 hour booking. But that’s 1k I’m missing out on. Ugh i rather be laying in bed all day and vaping. 😐
I am selfish
I am aloof
I am luxurious
I am wealthy
I exude sex, beauty and money
Men love spending money on me
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Hiii!! I’m not sure if you’re taking any questions buuuttt i shall ask one anyway and hope you answer hehe <3
- so there’s this guys who’s asked me out on a couple dates (two to be exact) both dates were set but canceled; first by him and second by me due to some important things. He said he hates canceling plans and that he’s a man of his word. I’m the same! Sooo sidenote he did CALL me to ask me out BUT the thing I’m struggling with is.. he will ask me out with no hesitation but RARLEY ever texts me. He only seems to text me when he sees me because we work in the same company. I’m not really sure what the question I’m trying to ask is but could you help me understand if I’m being played or if he just wants me for sex? I’m having trouble understanding where exactly he’s at and I feel like it’s WAY to early to ask that because we don’t know eachother that we’ll but we’ve had some pretty good conversations in person and maybe a few over text. Also I’ve notice if we set a date he won’t text me until the day of! I’ve been in numerous unhealthy and toxic relationships and have been used so many times that I’m struggling with reading people atm and I’m scared I’m going to go through all that again.
Ps: he’s 10 years older than me and I’m soooo sorry this is long and might be confusing ASF <3
I do have a lot of questions coming in that i haven’t answered. I have been busy traveling.
It seems like you haven’t understood your own value yet.
1.) Why are you interested in this man? for regular dating leading to something serious and real love? or hypergamy? or SD?
Figure out why you want this man.
2.) What type of man do you want in your life (considering what you have gone through)
Make a list. The attributes you want in a man. The way you want him to treat you, the way you want to man to feel about you, the way you want the man to court you etc... MAKE A LIST
(Does this current man even make you remotely feel that way?) ... I know you aren’t dating yet... But a man’s interest is usually clear. A man’s courtship is usually clear as well; when he is truly interested in pursuing you (for whatever reason...)
From what am gathering... you are out sight ... out of mind to this man. (Meaning, he isn’t really thinking about you...) ... He has the attitude of (if i get her putting minimum effort possible... i get her... If I don’t then hey, at least there was no effort.... MEANING : He could take it or leave it attitude).
Meaning, If another woman, he kindles his interest more comes along... you are BYE-BYE (People appreciate more what they invest effort into)
Do you really want a man who puts the least amount of bare minimum in the beginning stages? Can you imagine if you start the relationship... what he will be like, after he gets more comfortable (cause relationships, do cool down to a norm eventually). So if he is like this now... the potential of what he could become later sounds like another additional heart break for you.
3.) You know the answer to your own question; If this man only texts you when he sees you.
One of my favorite quote is “They say a lot... so i watch what they do” Men say a lot because they understand that women are gotten through words... So they say a lot.... He say’s he is a man of his word... that doesn’t mean anything to you. (Even if he is) that doesn’t spell his interest in you. it just means if he says he will be there at 8, then he will be there.... This is his general personality to people.... What you are trying to decipher is his interest in you. So being a man of his word.... doesn’t mean anything at this point.
A man’s action is his true feelings... take words with a grain of salt... WATCH ACTIONS...
What i am saying.... Is this man doesn’t have a skin in the game
secondly, he isn’t that interested (It could be that his interest will increase once you guys make it to a date)... But personally, I like men who even before dates pursue me and lead with their interest (I am spoilt that way... because I don’t require anything less... I won’t even engage with anything less...)
You don’t have to do that... BUT the problem is really not this man. He is the way he is... its up to you to determine if that works for you or if it doesn’t
The problem is YOU...
Clearly, you aren’t happy with his laissez faire interest in you.
The less than bare minimum effort etc.
So, why continue to entertain and inject hope there? You have a case of FOMO
What if I don’t give him a chance and he ends up being this wonderful man that i end up missing?
(What if he is only this way because he doesn’t know me yet and we’ve not been on a date yet)
The what ifs are legitimate question about not writing people off...
BUT........HAS THAT WORKED FOR YOU BEFORE?
(Yes, he could be a wonderful man... but he could also be a nightmare)
(Yes, he could be a wonderful man to another woman... that doesn’t mean he will be for you)
There are other women that man puts more effort into (because he is more interested).
Men’s action towards a woman, is usually on where they place you on their scale. (There could be a woman that man will send 20 messages a day to) Even from the first day....
KNOW THIS - Every man has a scale... consciously of subconsciously... it exists
My sponsor says “There are women. you wouldn’t dare spend more than 3k on, there are women, you wouldn’t even insult by offering 35k... And then there are women who anything less than a blackcard is an insult to himself and to her
Meaning : The level of a man’s interested is shown (yes the interest can grow, yes it can also start out an diminish)... The question is... ARE YOU HAPPY WITH WHERE IT IS STARTING AT? WILL YOU STAY IF IT DIMINISHES?
If a man’s interest starts out high and on it way starts to diminishes... I LEAVE
If i a man’s interest start’s out low and grows(I slowly match it.)...
Example : Lets say A man’s interest starts at 50%
I keep my interest in him at 10 %
If it grows to 100%
I increase mine to 20%
If it grows beyond 100%
I increase accordingly
And if his interest stays consistently high and above...
I match accordingly
ON THE REVERSE
Now if his interest decreases to 50%
I also scale back to 10%
It it falls less than 50%...
I leave (There a reason why, I don’t let it go less than 50%)
Again, you don’t have to do what i do (like I always warn people... you lose a lot of people going my way) And it can be hard...
But in my personal experience (It only keeps quality over quantity).
He is not playing you.... You are playing yourself by not really knowing your value or being honest with yourself and sticking your ground on how you want to be treated.
So figure that out...
#sugardating #sugardatingadvice #sugardatingtips #sugarbowl #hypergamy #datingadvice #sugarbowltips
So I’m starting to freestyle again. I charge this guy I met at some hotel bar 2000 for the hour and I only stayed for like 30 minutes because he finished too fast. (Which is good for me 😊). He wants to meet tomorrow for dinner to discuss seeing me one day for every week of the month. I’ve been manifesting so hard lately that I feel all my wishes are coming true.
I miss the OG whores.
I have manifested a steady, infinite source of money for me and my family.
Money keeps coming to me constantly and in big amounts because I deserve it.
As a result, I am able to get whatever I want and need.
My bank account balance keeps increasing.
Y’all today I-
I’m back and better
I wonder if this is a good time to rebrand. 😂
So they shut down Houston again 😕
Everyday, Black women and girls are missing and either never found or found dead.
Say HER name.
15 year old JOY LYNN. She is missing from Dallas, Texas. The police aren't doing anything, so please, if you suspect anything, found a clue, or whatever, come forward.
✨ I’m getting quality clients who book multiple hours + overnights, with gifts, sponsorship, and trips 👜💸✨
✨ I’m moving away from toxic ad platforms and social media/review culture 💸✨
✨ I’m cultivating my brand to a style that’s original, 10/10🔥🔥, and highly regarded 💸✨
✨ I’m providing the best life for me that requires no excuses or apologizes 💸✨
Rant:
As a sex worker I honestly just hate my body.
I’m thinking about getting a bbl and getting some ribs removed for the desired body I want. I feel like nobody in the sex worker world really talks about the eating disorders or the lack of self esteem that comes with being a hoe.
And if you wanna be honest. I didn’t really start hating my body until I become a sex worker. 🤷🏽♀️
I’m mad I’m going to a appointment.
All I wanted to do today is eat seafood and watch Netflix 😐