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— ring-a-ling ding! new system role incoming!

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a new order just arrived : fadhbpart !

so, like. ok. i, nec, have a fragment in my (ringed) subsystem that is. not my favorite to say the least. shi is a type of part that i don't really like or vibe with personally, but i had to make a role for lust because absolutely no other terms can possibly fit. and now that i've redone our profile, i figured that i'd post this for the public to see.

heads up, this term includes rad//queer and dark//ship mentions. we aren't rad//queer and never will be! and please for the love of everything holy do not send hatemail because that is a guaranteed block. abide by your own dni's please.

— fadhbpart :

a persecutor who acts in "problematic" ways according to the rest of the [system], or engages in such behavior as a way to vent for the [system], rid oneself or the [system] of urges, or for other related reasons. a fadhbpart does not act in accordance to the rest or majority of the [system]'s views.

this term is not to be directly forced upon someone in a system. this term also does not support harmful actions taken in real life (including rad//queer "transitioning"), and is only for online usage due to the sensitive nature of such a concept. please use this role with care.

— ( fadhb, pronounced "fibe," roughly translates to "problem" in irish gaelic. )

( terms in brackets are obviously able to be changed for whatever a plural calls oneself. )

examples of a fadhbpart can include :

a headmate who is rad//queer or uses related terms to describe oneself, in a system that is majority anti rad//queer

a headmate who uses or ships dark//ships for whatever reason, whilst in a system that is majority antiship or anti dark//ship

a headmate who has or holds an addiction (and acts on said addiction) that the others do not have.

.. and more. this is for whatever you deem to be not in accordance with the rest of your headmates.

this is coined by a trauma-endo system, but it is for all systems and plurals alike to use. i don't gatekeep my terms! but please don't interact with this post if you are included in my dni.

a reminder for anyone who feels like they're going to spiral, do something bad to themselves or someone else, etc. :

you aren't a bad person.

it's okay to let your feelings out, but do so responsibly. there is always at least someone who will let you use them as a support system. there is always at least one healthy coping mechanism that will work for you.

take a deep breath, smell the flowers. focus on the environment around you. listen to the sounds of the outside. clench all of your muscles and slowly, one by one, let the tension go. light a few candles, or sage. pray, if your belief system includes it.

listen to reiki, asmr, or guided meditation. listen to music, no matter the genre. write out your feelings, even if it's a first draft. watch something you love; hell, do something you love. distract yourself from the feelings of guilt, anger, and anguish.

of course, you can't always run away from it. that's fine. leave it for now, and come back to it later in a healthier mindset. sleep on it. forget it in the moment.

just take care of yourself. you got this!

( anti-endogenics are able to interact with this post. self-care is for everyone. )

this is exactly why we hate the system community

good job ruining it

telling a harmless group to die is disgusting behavior

daily reminder to tumblr themselves endos and tulpas should all hang themselves for being ableist!! created plurality is not a thing.

Transferian

A transferian system (AKA katamaric or amalgamic) is a median system where the facets "come and go". The core idea of transferians is that the facet(s) eventually become the host of the system, and while the old host leaves, it may leave fragments of its personality. The new host, taking on the role not only inherits the traits of former hosts but also adds their own traits.

Some traits of former hosts may be lost to time, but it's not permanent as they can be reintroduced by a facet that happens to have a similar aspect.

Note: While this term was coined with medians in mind, this is not a strictly exclusive term.

also on pluralpedia! (alt text embedded)

SHOUTOUT TO TRANSID PEOPLE TOO!!!! LOVE YOU ALL!

SHOUT OUT TO BEINGS WHO FIT THE "RADQUEER STEREOTYPE"

SHOUT OUT TO AMERICAN RADQUEERS

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO HOARD LABELS

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO ARE TRANSITIONING TO BE ASIAN

SHOUT OUT RADQUEERS WHO ARE A PART OF THE BIG 3

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO ARE OPENLY EROTIC

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO ARE CHRONICALLY ONLINE

SHOUT OUT TO RADQUEERS WHO CAN'T/DON'T GO OUTSIDE

You are REAL and VALID !! <3

anti-endo logic: endogenic systems don't exist, quick, bully them until they develop enough trauma to become a REAL plural

My page is a safe place for:

2SLGBTQIA+

Neogender and neopronoun identifiers

people with personality disorders

informed self dx

poc / bipoc

any body size and shape

therians / otherkin

furries

cosplayers

disabled ppl

mentally ill ppl

neurodivergent ppl

any origin systems

political activists

leftists

anarchists / communists / socialists

anti-cap

punks

pierced ppl

Also I'm looking for new friends!

I AM COMPLETELY MENTALY STABLE

the voices told me so

🐠 who has the strangest fictional crush?

i mean, we don't really harbor fictional crushes, and those who do refuse to tell us about them.

🦀 who is the BRITISH one

ruin. hands down. ruin. when im telling you he STRUGGLES SO HARD to mask the accent

🐬 most likely to be turned into a frog by an evil witch :(

Both Nicoles, mainly because they're both assholes/aff

🦑 which pillow pet are you (current fronter) - friendly frog pillow pet

🐳 who says y’all unironically - gala

🐙 who’s the best at fronting (interpret this how you will) - uhh. in terms of keeping hold of front, our higher ups. in terms of masking, we have a bunch of just. maskers.

🪼 who has the most obscure source? who has the most well known? - Gary or Leah is probably the most obscure (both childhood introjected fictives), and without a doubt, Elsa is most known. They are all from our childhood....

🐡 who’s the most insect adjacent. either in the little guy way or the EEEAAAAGHHHTKGJF FNN KILL IT way - Bee, M., there's a few guys

🐟 who should be at the club rn - me. id like to send myself to the club.

system ask game except the questions are moderately unhinged

🐠 who has the strangest fictional crush?

🦀 who is the BRITISH one

🐬 most likely to be turned into a frog by an evil witch :(

🦑 which pillow pet are you (current fronter)

🐳 who says y’all unironically

🐙 who’s the best at fronting (interpret this how you will)

🪼 who has the most obscure source? who has the most well known?

🐡 who’s the most insect adjacent. either in the little guy way or the EEEAAAAGHHHTKGJF FNN KILL IT way

🐟 who should be at the club rn

my fandom is actually composed of quite a few plural collectives- and many of the fandoms we're in (besides a select few) have creators who are outwardly plural friendly and have supports for plural collectives (eg. pluralkit). so, id say in my experience personally in the few inbetweens ive interacted with my own fandom, its mostly been fine, besides the few outliers here and there, along with some strange ships id rather not think about again... - sun ☀

hello. systems. plurals. especially introtives/introjects/what have you. etc. i have a question! a few actually. what would you say your general experience(s) with fandom has been like? has it been well? did you feel respected in fandom spaces? id assume itd vary between them so if youve seen any patterns id like to know them as well. weird as hell post ik ik but work with me here

tw: identity crisis

hey brain. nice joke!! can i have my identity back now please?

me when i have a trauma disorder because i experienced trauma

when you try to share a silly story from your past and they look at you in horror and ask if youre okay

Hey, you all doing okay?

Just figured I'd ask :)

- ✨️✏️

Yeah! We're doing great, thank you for asking! We told a friend (singlet) about our plurality recently and they took it really well, so we're in a great mood at the moment! Our birthday is also coming up, so lots of joyous occasions recently, lol.

What are some of your funniest memories from interacting with your headmates? - Entity

One of the funniest memories from interacting with my headmates would probably be that one time during therapy where some of us just started singing caramelldansen near front. We had to stop and compose ourselves for a moment as the current fronter was laughing their ass off, LOL. Thank you for the question!

ask a did sys questions!

obviously no overly personal questions (such as talking about trauma n such, in-depth information about alters, bodily information or anything of that sort that might put us at risk) but generally most things are fine.

hey! im opening up a q&a from a traumagenic did system to both singlets and systems of all origins! feel free to click the ‘send us giggles and shits’ button to submit a question! we’ll try our best to answer to the best of our ability. just this once, we are willing to discuss and share our opinions on controversial topics among the plural community, given it is a CIVILIZED discussion. however, if these conversations end up turning sour, this will be removed promptly.

gonna get a bit syscourse-y here, but... recently noticed kind of a weird hypocrisy in anti-endo arguments and wanted to point it out to see if others agree

for extra context, i have DID and im pro-endo id say?? my mindset is basically just "i dont get it personally, but live ur life dude(s), its not my business and im not gonna tell u what u are / arent" because like. i find it super hard to believe that DID and OSDD-1 are the ONLY possible causes for systems LOL... also i will be using the terms endo / endogenic as umbrella terms for all plurality outside of DID / OSDD-1 throughout this post

ANYWAYS THOUGHH... most harshly anti-endo spaces (or at least those that are pro-recovery) really emphasise that DID and OSDD-1 are more than just "alter disorders", which i absolutely agree with! DID and OSDD-1 are both complex dissociative disorders that include identity alteration (alters) as a SYMPTOM, but the disorders both fundamentally involve dissociation and impairment in daily life to some extent

BUT... then they are also so quick to say that endos MUST have DID / OSDD-1 if they have alters... but what about all the other symptoms? most endos i have met do not experience dissociation or other DID / OSDD-1 symptoms. claiming someone MUST have DID / OSDD-1 because they have alters would kind of be reducing the disorders down to just "alter disorders", right?

plus, it seems to be entirely ignoring the fact that you can have a symptom of a disorder without having the disorder / being disordered... lets use ADHD as an example here since its the first thing to come to mind LOL, someone can have a short attention span or be distracted easily without inherently having ADHD. it would depend on the presence of other symptoms as well as degree of life impairment. this logic also applies to any other disorder ever... so why dont we apply the same logic to DID / OSDD-1?

most endos i see dont claim DID / OSDD-1, and the ones that do are generally mixed origins. if we apply the logic that symptom ≠ disorder and that DID / OSDD-1 are more than just "alter disorders", why would someone not be able to have alters without a dissociative disorder?

IDK i hope this makes sense. feel free to reblog with any comments or anything i want to see others opinionz

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Even as someone who is pro-endogenic, I think it is important to say that the research done on DID, OSDD, and other trauma-based dissociative conditions is still valuable and important, even if you’re not a traumagenic system.

I’m not saying you need to be an expert or spend several hours reading so many books and peer-reviewed papers that you might as well have a PhD. I’m saying that having a basic grasp of concepts like C-PTSD, structural dissociation, and the core clinical models of trauma-based plurality will help you become a better ally to traumagenic systems, mixed-origin systems (like me), and traumatized endogenic systems.

I’ve noticed that some endogenic spaces have a tendency to either dismiss research on traumagenic systems as irrelevant or criticize it for not including endogenic experiences. But here’s the thing… that doesn’t mean the existing research is wrong. It’s just focused on a different population of people whose system formed because of trauma.

Research doesn’t extensively talk about endogenic or mixed-origin systems because those aren’t typically studied in a clinical (i.e., pathological) context. That doesn’t make our experiences less valid. It just means we exist outside the current research. And that’s okay. But it is still good to understand where traumagenic systems are coming from because not all of us are without trauma, and we need you as an ally. Especially if we want mutual respect and solidarity within plural spaces.

I think about this a lot because if endogenic spaces were a lot more like this a few years ago, I would’ve gotten support and found community a lot sooner. It has gotten a lot better since the last time I’ve been in plural spaces, but there is still more room to grow.

Can we stop saying people with covert DID/OSDD or other covert forms of plurality are privileged? Maybe I’m missing something, but I don’t understand how suffering in a way that goes unnoticed is more privileged than suffering in a way that’s noticed.

Both have their ups and downs person-to-person. So what makes one more privileged than the other?

this popped into my head out of nowhere so i had to create it as an image …… mitosis

- 🦇

Okay start this with a song I suppose, shall we-

We're The Wild West System.

Please be patient with us. We kind of discovered we're a system mid 2024 shortly before meeting our partner sys. We're mostly made up of fictives. (If you want to know sources or the difference. Ask and they may tell you!)

Collective name: Eddie

System nicknames: West/Crow

Collective Pronouns: He/They

Collective Orient: Bi

Body Age: 21

Disorders: ADHD, PTSD

Suspected Disorders: OCD...

Hobbies: reading, writing, painting

Hyperfixes: ALWAYS changing

Body/Hosts: Writer, M and Crowly, BJ, Shawn Spencer

Co-Hosts: Peter Parker, Steve Harrington, Wade Wilson, Tony Stark,

We'll post using our SP sign offs and try to tag who posted if not uh... Good luck out there with our posts!

We don't know terms really yet so all your hoodoo voodoo terms makes us

@lesini :3 i made a mood board for you!

I hope you like it! 💜

(Images from Pinterest)

LOL helloooo I realized i never made a introduction post!

[BIGOTS, RUDE PEOPLE, ANTI ENDO/WILLO/TRUMAGENIC DNI, SYSMEDS DNI]

Hiya! My name is Emerson! I am a Transmasc/Fluidflux minor.

[YES I AM A MINOR SO BE CAREFUL WITH WHAT YOU SAY TO ME]

I am

-polythiest

-pro LGBTQ+

-pro endogenic, pro trumagenic, pro willo/paro/tulpagenic.

I am often not active since i have school and just life shit in general lol.

So uh hi

//: can we jjust talk about anti-endos for a second?

//: it’s just like... imagine basically saying to someone, “you aren’t real” “ii don’t believe in your existence and you thinking you exist is harmful”

//: it feels hypocritical. it IS hypocritical. because thats what ssome closed-minded singlets say to traumagenics too, surely

//: just because we didn’t form from trauma doesn’t mean we didn’t form at all.

//: and so what? wwe’re just existing. we aren’t hurting anyone.

//: we understand why anti-endos believe what they do about us, and why they believe us eexisting is harmful to them, but it still isn’t right and it’s still hypocritical. y’know?

Cringe system culture is : oh , you don't like xenogenders ? Ah ! Practically everyone uses one here and we collectively identify as baddoggender ! Oh , you don't like endogenic / non traumagenic ? Ah ! Half of us are endogenic ! And the old host was itself endogenic ! Oh , you don't like neopronouns ? Ah ! We practically all use them and we have some collective neopronouns !

Can we claim 🎖️?

Cringe System Culture Is

"This language can be forced on plurals and systems in an invalidating way" and "this language is extremely validating to some plurals and systems" are statements that can coexist. I think so many people are familiar with the first that they forget the second. The harm comes from pushing parts language onto people, not from people choosing to use it because it resonates with them. It's equally as harmful to discourage someone using parts language for themselves because of how it makes you feel.

This is by no means a 1:1 comparison, but think of how some people find being called queer validating and empowering while others feel the exact opposite and would rather not. That is a choice they make based on how it makes them personally feel and what it means to them.

Hot take but we HATE how parts language is always talked down on, attacked, and torn apart by the plural community. Just because you don’t use it for yourselves doesn’t mean it’s bad or wrong!

Those who identify with parts language aren’t “less than whole.” They’re not “less than a person.” They’re not less than anything! They are systems and they are deserving of dignity and respect just like everyone else.

We use parts language and we are dismayed and greatly pained to see the plural community, OUR community, so quick to bash and tear down the language that we find affirming. It makes us feel left out of our own community, downtrodden and cast aside.

.

Istg dude my partner's incubator has called them SEVEN TIMES today for random bullshit rants and I just wanna talk to my lover I'm so fucking done 😭

-???

Guys I'm on idle until I get my new phone HELP

I would have played all my favorite games already if my phone didn't have only 32GB, my speaker/mic is blowing out anyway so I'm lucky I get a reward for academic success

This phone has always been kinda bad but so has everything else, I can barely play online at all because of it, however this time I get to choose the phone and with the suggestions of my partner I'm getting a whole new phone type (from android/samsung to iphone)

Honestly idfk how to feel??? Like don't get me wrong I fucking LOVE the idea of going from 32GB to 520-something GB but that's a lot to process 😭 I don't even know how most iPhone mechanics work (I used a friend's once and couldn't figure out the home/app button thing)

I'm gonna miss separate volumes, but it's a price to pay

-Innie

Ultimate goober energy

When I say I like jesters ion mean Shadow Milk Cookie, ion mean Jevil or Marx, ion even mean Dimentio, and I ESPECIALLY don't mean Fizarolli, when I say I like jesters I mean Three from Numberblocks on CBeeBies Kids