dont take bird noises for granted
actually there's one thing i haven't had since the breakup...anxiety. huh, funny how that works
“always trust your intuition” my brother in christ I have overwhelming anxiety
u could literally have a PHD in something but a random man will still think he knows more about it than you because he’s male and you’re female and he read a post about it on reddit
the problem i run into men, without fail, is trying to talk to them like i talk to women and realizing that even the most conscious and progressive and evolved man just cannot reach me at the depth that women can. i want and expect that depth and complexity every time, but i need to let it go. i still enjoy talking to a handful of men, it’s not like it’s all horrible and boring—there’s fun and charm there. it’s just different.
Finding a fresh new daydreaming plot is honestly the best feeling.
Studio Ghibli: ‘Nausicaä of the Valley of the Wind’ (1984) dir. Hayao Miyazaki
Kiki Smith: ‘Constellation’ at Nelson-Atkins Museum of Art (1996)
The Baltic sea by Arvydas Ciuksys
asking for help at work feels like being stabbed 400 times then getting run over by three trucks and shot like one thousand times
i think it's time accept that relationships do me more harm than good and just focus on friendships and communities
another sunday morning another iced coffee and feelings of abandonment creeping up in me
the stitches in my arm look cool i feel like a pirate
Fukuoka, Japan: Mitoma Beach at Sunset
chat how do i kill the desire to be wanted and chosen before it kills me
i still have no words
THIS IS CRAZY ENHYPEN 🔥
A rest day isn't enough. I need one billion years alone in a crystal.
The "kids are on their damn phones all the time" conversation has changed in an extremely significant way and I'm not sure people realize it. When kids had flip phones, and even in the early days of smartphones, kids were using their phones to text each other. It was part of an active social life. Now they're using their phones more and more to consume content from influencers or other accounts. It's more passive and it's increasingly what people are doing instead of socializing with each other. This applies to adults too, I just keep thinking about high school students.
getting my yearning surgically removed tomorrow
[gripping the sink] perfectionism does not help me avoid embarrassment or shame. perfectionism is in itself a form of shame. when i struggle with perfectionism i struggle with shame. when i struggle with perfectionism i struggle with shame. when i struggle with perfectionism i struggle with shame
he doesn't know i'm rooting for him
A constellation of swimmers passes overhead off Hawaii's Kona coast during the 1999 Ironman Triathlon. Contestants swim 2.4 miles, bike 112 miles, then run 26.2 miles. Winning time: 8 hours, 17 minutes, 17 seconds- down more than 3 hours since 1978. National Geographic (2000)